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Kenny and Heidi Drury

BKF Master Coaches

Kenny and Heidi Drury are a blended family of 17 years with five children and seven grandchildren. They have been equipping couples one-on-one and in group settings for five years. In their own lives, they have overcome addictions, rejection and abandonment issues, anger, childhood wounds and trauma, and financial hardships.

The Drury’s have a background as small business owners in the custom residential masonry and concrete trades. Kenny and Heidi are passionate about teaching couples how to do marriage Gods way because they believe every marriage matters. They have experience, training, and certification to work with engaged couples, traditional families, blended families, attachment styles and wounds, addiction and recovery, childhood sexual abuse and trauma, prison ministry, woman’s ministry, and marriage ministry. Kenny and Heidi look forward to empowering you to start experiencing your best marriage and blended family.

Heidi and Kenny offer coaching together as a couple and coach individually.

Warren and Jennifer Waters

BKF Certified Coaches

Warren is a coach with a heart for helping blended families thrive. With 25 years of experience as a financial advisor, Warren knows the importance of balancing practicalities with family dynamics. He’s not just a coach; he’s a husband and father in a blended family with five children, which gives him firsthand insight into the challenges and joys of blended family life.

Warren’s faith in Jesus fuels his passion for serving others. He’s all about helping families navigate the ups and downs with empathy and understanding. Warren’s coaching is all about building connections, resolving conflicts, and strengthening bonds. With Warren’s support, blended families discover new pathways to harmony, growth, and fulfillment, building strong foundations rooted in love, faith, and mutual respect.

Jennifer, a seasoned finance professional with over 20 years of leadership experience, is passionate about guiding blended families through life’s complexities. Drawing from her own journey as a wife and mom in a blended family, she offers compassionate support and practical guidance. Her strong faith in Jesus fuels her passion for serving others, providing hope and healing to families in any season of life. With her empathetic approach and commitment to fostering unity, Jennifer strives to help blended families thrive.

Jennifer specializes in marriage, single parenting, co-parenting, finances, leadership coaching, mentorship, and all aspects of blended family dynamics.

Warren and Jennifer offer coaching together as a couple and coach individually.

Kristen Best

BKF Coach

Kristen Best brings her experience as an HR director, manager and team builder to her role as a BKF coach. With a degree in Sociology from the University of North Texas, she has worked first-hand with executives, parents, couples, and families. Kristen is passionate about helping blended families find their passion and purpose in God’s Kingdom.

Kristen specializes in pre-marriage, marriage, parenting, co-parenting, leadership training, and mentorship.

Scott & Lindsay Schmitz

BKF Coaches

Scott and Lindsay are a double-blended family with three teenage daughters. They have been working with couples and single parents in group settings and one-on-one for over two years. During this time, they have been able to use their experience in both their roles of bio- and bonus-parent to help navigate blended family complexities.

Scott & Lindsay recognize that each blended family is unique but having a strong relationship with God as the first priority followed by marriage, is the key to success in each situation.

Lindsay is currently working to complete her master’s degree in Leadership and Ministry from Evangel University. Scott has been leading in the Army for nearly 20 years.

Scott and Lindsay offer coaching together as a couple and individually.

Vanessa Martindale

BKF Master Coach

Vanessa is a wife and mother as well as a passionate lover of Jesus, His Word, and His people. A registered nurse for more than 7 years, she has a heart to serve those in their most vulnerable seasons of life. Birthed out of a desire to see God work in marriages and families, Vanessa is pursuing a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at The King’s University. She is called to help people discover their Kingdom purpose and find true freedom through deeper intimacy with Jesus.

Vanessa specializes in pre-marriage, marriage, co-parenting, single parenting, litigation, and all aspects of blended family dynamics and relationships.

Scott Martindale

BKF Master Coach

Scott has 20-plus years of experience in blended family, marriage, and pre-marriage coaching. He earned his bachelor’s degree in Psychology at Abilene Christian University and his master’s degree in Counseling and Human Development from Hardin Simmons University. Scott is fueled by a desire to see individuals, marriages, and families live life the way God intended. Scott’s heart is to walk alongside married couples and families, helping them navigate the process of blending a family in a healthy way.

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