As parents, we know separation and divorce affect our kids. We understand the significant impact on their well-being when we marry again. That is one reason co-parenting is a regular topic Blended Kingdom Families addresses. But what if we could hear directly from them? Through our initiative, Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT), we hear teens expressing […]
Most of us look forward to summertime with anticipation and excitement. The kids are out of school which means no more early mornings, homework, and car drop-off and pick-up lines. We get to spend more time with our children, bonus children, and blended family as we enjoy the summer weather, vacations, snow cones, and swimming […]
When families begin to blend, siblings and stepsiblings often get along great. They are getting to know each other and enjoy doing activities together. When the newness wears off and everyone settles in, sibling rivalry may creep in. Bringing children together under one roof can shake up family dynamics and breed conflicts. Competition over parental […]
You prayed for a partner and waited for God to answer. Eventually, He brings someone into your life, and you develop that special relationship. Now, you want to walk down the aisle again. But there’s a big problem: your adult children don’t want you to remarry. If that describes your situation, you are not alone. […]
Navigating the complexities of co-parenting can be challenging. When you become frustrated with the situation, it’s important to communicate effectively with your spouse, but unfortunately, the conversation can leave both of you even more upset. How do you talk about co-parent issues without it turning into a gripe session? If you’ve found yourself in that […]
Disciplining children can be challenging in any family, but blended families face unique obstacles. Children may be uncertain about how to relate to a new stepparent, and the biological parents may worry about how their ex’s new spouse might discipline their kids. Maintaining consistency across households adds an extra layer of complexity. To help navigate […]
The holiday season sparks joy and excitement for many families. But for blended families, the season can feel anything but picture-perfect. Between complicated schedules, balancing traditions, and tensions between biological parents, the holidays can present unique challenges. Having navigated blended family life for over ten years, we (Scott and Vanessa) have experienced firsthand the ups […]
Bringing children into a new marriage is like making s’mores. The graham crackers, gooey marshmallows, and chocolate get squished together, and it can get a little messy. Blending a family can get muddled up, too, with multiple people and their unique histories thrown together to create a unified whole. It can be challenging for a new […]
Scripture makes clear that we have an enemy, the devil. From the beginning account of his work in Genesis to the last references of him in Revelation, the Bible records his ongoing mission is to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). He hates God and hates anything God loves, including human beings and their families. […]
Parenting teenagers can be challenging, whether you are a parent or stepparent. From their hormone fluctuations to their desire to be independent, teens undergo radical change in a short amount of time. As parents and stepparents, we may not know how to pray for them, and we may be overwhelmed by how much they need […]
